Archive for May, 2012

Review Norms

Sunday, May 20th, 2012

Free to choose In our daily life, it is necessary to limit the impositions of the fashion, those of the clothes, those of the language, those of the gestures, those of this society of masses says that us that we are all free ones loves but us to all uniforms, uniformed in clothes, ideas, tastes, soda waters, hamburgers, noise. For example I can speak in language filled with modismos and also in modal good language of hall and. Consequently, I can choose. Today seen me as they suggest the great marks to me, but story in my riqusimo wardrobe with articles that the great marks would watch with certain rejection. Consequently, I can choose.

The society imposes limits, norms, prisons. The home must provide alternatives, critical thought, put internal limits to them to the external limits. This it is your work of mother, of father; a work, yes. To help your children to review norms. For it they need your norms. And from them they will be able to contemplate to those of outside, and to choose.

All influence in your children, all say to them what to do, how to move, what to think, where to hang arito, how many sexualities to exert, how to be happy. why do not have to also take part you in his lives? Confronted parents and children are normal It is normal that your son rebels itself against you. It is normal that their ideas with yours do not agree and is normal that you do not understand at all to him and that he does not understand to you when affirms that you think like about the age of stone. All that is normal, because they are different, different beings and of ages different and to include/understand to the other it is often impossible. And he is always going to be thus because although you say the opposite, you are imposing him your life, your education, your ways, your limits. This is normal, cannot be of another way. It is born in your house, it grows in your house, your society and you transmit to him what you have, your language, your moral, your modal ones. That another thing you could transmit to him. When they are small that transmission takes place without democracy, without a congress of by means: the boy is a year old, two years three years and he cannot to discuss to norms and rules. Everything runs by your account. And soon when it grows he will be free to review the norms that received from their parents, to criticize them, to replace them or to modify them. People usually say: – She dresses what rebellious that is the young people today? Good I respond to them: -Rebels? To be rebellious it is necessary to be against to something, to somebody, an idea, a limit, a norm, to rules. The permissive parents do not raise rebellious children, but they produce children who directly ignore their parents and make what others dictate to them, others much more authoritarian: the society, the television, the propaganda, the fashion, the other boys.

Assistance

Sunday, May 6th, 2012

GS1A Term of office is right of all and will be given by the professionals specialized in the area, having they bonds or not with the government, to who of it to need, debtro of the objective tracings in this internal legislation; Paragraph only-THe agency of Term of office will develop action with priority stops: I-As children, to the adolescents, young the aged in situation of vulnerability and social risk; II-Os desassistidos of any income or benefits; III It abandoned maternity; IV-Aos homelesses; Carrying you of necessities special and HIV; VI-Aos aged; GS2O go will establish plans of action in the area of Term of office, especially objectifying the correction of the disequilibria of the social system and the recovery and integration of the harmed people more, aiming at to the socialharmnico development. I paragraph only-THe plan of action will observe the following lines of direction: Consigned financial I-Resource in the social budget, beyond others sources; II-Setting of objectives and goals; III-Setting of the instruments to be used in co-ordinated way, between which the stimulaton to the activities of assistenciais entities of the civil society and to the shelter or guard of children or adolescents orphan or abandoning; IV It subject for the agency of social workmanships that for its nature and exteno, cannot be taken care of by the assistenciais entities of the civil society; V-System of accompaniment of the final gradual results of the implemented actions; Vi-Participation of the population in the formularization of the politics and the control of the actions in all the levels. GS3Alei will regulate the composition, the functioning and the attributions of the center of reference of Term of office; GS4O agency of Term of office will be able to firm convenios with charitable entities and of social Assistance for execution of the action plan. Only-The paragraph accords to be celebrated with assistenciais entities, also with to repass of social subventions, they will depend on previous program of work, in accord it eats politics adopted and developed for the agency of Term of office in this area..


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