Jenny War Hernandez
So that better east is understood concept, we are going to use an example. We suppose that our adolescent son feels admiration by a singer, because what we would do he is to see with him or she videos on the biography of that singer, to read interviews, critics and to consult all the sources that we pruned. Of this form, our adolescent will realize of which its idol is not perfect, but as any human being has problems, it has had to fight to arrive at where it is, and it does not like to everybody. Ensale to be proactive the pressure of mass media and the different social groups with whom any adolescent interacts, tends to cause that they are placed in a passive attitude and reactivates. From this perspective, the adolescents want to be able to be thinner, but they do not make anything to obtain it and they eat chucheras in excess, or they want to emphasize in the studies but they do not touch books unless they have examinations.
Nevertheless, they worry because they do not have the physicist of its idols or because they suspend. For this reason, it is necessary that we teach to them to take responsibility to be able to reach its objectives. If you want that it is committed and so it does, rmate of patience From the point of view of the parents, he is very complicated to understand why the adolescent children do not act of more responsible form. However, it is normal that these ages the things with much illusion begin and they give in by others ” more interesantes”. In order to help the children to behave of more mature and responsible form, it is important to be comprehensive with its fickle attitude, but simultaneously and with much patience to remember one to them and the times that are necessary, the objective that has seted out.
Once again, I will use an example so that it is understood to me better. We imagine that our adolescent daughter wants pass, but to five days of the next test she has not touched a book. In these cases, instead of to say things to him like ” you already are as always, certainly this time also suspendes” , we can surprise giving it to him the book we are going when it to look for its educative center, saying ” to him; it takes affection, I leave the book you because you are going certainly it to need to be able to approve that subject that as much you preocupa”. In summary, if we want to help our adolescent children to construct its self-esteem, we must try to empatizar with its form to see the world and to act as comprehensive guides accompany who them in their process by development without pressing them. Something quite difficult to do, but and so we will obtain that they construct autoconcepto healthy and hard.
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